soulmate!

each of us will hav some dreams, thoughts about our ideal mate, "soulmate" as it is termed... for me, a soulmate is one who can understand me without me having to explain myself to him... someone who shares my attitude in life, someone who respects my individuality, someone who loves me for wat i am, in my wholeness, my good n my bad, my strength n my weaknesses, similarly someone who i love in his wholeness, one who can read my silences and not jus my words and whose silences mean more than words to me, who can relate to my thoughts and whose thoughts i can relate to... to put it in short, a person with whom every minute spent is complete, soulful and satisfying...

i read a blog somewhere tat made me put these couple of thought provoking questions to myself...

is there someone like a soulmate?
if yes, how do you find your soulmate?
will you seek your soulmate? will you wait for tat someone who is made just for you?
wat if you find your soulmate when you already hav someone else in your life?
will you leave tat someone and go ahead with your soulmate?
or will you let go off your soulmate n be contented with the one you hav in ur life?
wat if u wait too long and dont find tat person?
or should you try to find your dream mate in your current mate?
if you find tat person, will you muster the courage to tell him/her abt your feelings?
if you meet tat person a little too late, will you be sad tat life wud hav been better than its now if you had met him/her earlier?
will the society accept if a person wants to leave his/her current life and move on with his/her soulmate?
does it matter if the society accepts it or not?
when the society is yet to grow and accept love, will it ever accept the concept of soulmates?

lots of questions and some blurred answers... i do believe tat we all hav a soulmate and we jus need to find him/her... silly as it may sound, i believe tat God surely made us in pairs... will i wait for my soulmate? i donno, coz my life is connected with tat of my parents, and i dont think they will allow me to wait endlessly... if i found my soulmate, i wud surely wanna tell him tat he is my soulmate... but if i met him too late wud i be able to leave my current mate and go ahead with him? i donno... some soul searching going on here...

God left gaps between our fingers so tat one day when we find tat one person who is made for us, he/she will hold our hands n fill those gaps :)